1. INTRODUCTION
“Connections: A Guide to Transition Planning” has been developed to help you – the parents of a child with a developmental disability in Dufferin and Wellington Counties and the Regions of Halton Peel and Waterloo (Central West Region) – as your child makes the transition from school life to adulthood.
This guide has been written to provide you with information on transition planning and to identify some of the issues you need to think about. It will also provide you with information on accessing services in each of the communities in Central West Region that may be useful to you as you begin to plan for your child’s life beyond school.
This guide has three parts:
- Part 1 provides information on Transition Planning;
- Part 2 provides information on Tools & Resources that may help
you in the transition planning process; and
- Part 3 provides you with space to collect your information –
your records, certificates, copies of your transition plan, contact information etc.
An initial thought… As you will read throughout this document, it is important to prepare for your child’s transition from the school system to life as an adult. Having a transition plan in place however, is no guarantee that all the supports and services you have identified in your plan will be available to you in the adult system. The reality is that your child is moving from a system of entitlement, (the public education system) to a system of limited and finite resources (adult developmental services). You will be challenged to be creative, think outside the box of the traditional support system and find innovative ways to acquire the supports and services you and your child need. There are many parents that have travelled this path before you and they can be a resource for you. Some of their ideas are shared in this guide. The information that follows is intended to provide you with a variety of resources, tools and sources of information to help you find the right mix of supports as your child takes the next major step in his or her life.
It is hoped that “Connections” will help you and your child get involved by giving you information, ideas and tools to start planning for this time of change. You can begin using some of these tools as early as when your child reaches the age of 9. Even though this may seem early there are many activities that can be completed and reinforced, or continued throughout the adolescent years in preparation for the move to adult life. Preparing early and being well organized will help you make this transi- tion a smoother process. Transition planning will take time and hard work, but seeing your child make a confident step to adult life will be worth the effort.
This Guide is for You and Your Child
While the information is aimed primarily at you – the parents – much of what is in this guide needs to be considered and completed with the full involvement of your child to the extent that they are able. Family members and other important people providing supports (teachers, friends and service providers) may find it useful as well.
This guide is intended to provide you with information through a variety of practical tools, checklists, worksheets and innovative ideas that you and your child can use together to help make your way through this time of transition.
Please Note… Throughout this guide, the word “parent” not only refers to biological parents but is meant to include any adult with the responsibility of raising a young person with a developmental disability, for example, a legal guardian. The use of the word “families” is meant to be inclusive of all members of the extended family that play an important part in the life of the young person. This may include parents, grandparents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc.
As a parent, you naturally have dreams and aspirations for your child. You want them to finish school, find a job, find a comfortable place to live and have a circle of friends to support them as they enter the next phase of their life. When raising a child with developmental disabilities, figuring out options and making decisions to make their hopes and dreams a reality is often much more complex and requires a great deal more effort and planning. This transition is going to happen whether you plan for it or not. It is to your advantage to begin thinking about it early and use this opportunity to make a very real and positive impact on your child’s future.
An important part of transition planning is to involve your child in the process in whatever way and to whatever extent is possible. For example, that can mean including them in meetings, asking them what they want to do and encouraging them to relay their responses through whatever communication method they are comfortable with. Each of the tools in this guide can be adapted to fit the circumstances and the unique abilities of each child.
Just as each child is unique in their own way, so too are families. Families have different cultures, backgrounds, beliefs and values. Therefore, the way each family approaches a situation, makes decisions or relates to each other as a group will be different as well. Nonetheless, every family needs a transition plan. So take the suggestions included in this guide and make adjustments as needed to ensure the best fit for your family situation.
What does involvement mean? In many places throughout the guide, it is suggested that you involve your child in planning and in making decisions. It is recognized that each child has their own unique set of abilities, strengths and challenges and the level of involvement for each child will be defined differently. Some may be comfortable leading activities identified in their plans while others will simply indicate their intentions with a smile. Either way, this is how involvement is defined…individually, and based on a unique set of abilities!
About the Information in this Guide
There are many transition planning guides and resources available from a wide variety of sources. Several provinces and many states in the United States have researched and developed transition guides. “Connections” is based on the research and information provided in several of these transition guides; in particular the document developed in British Columbia by the Ministry of Children and Family Development “Your Future Now - A Transition Planning & Resource Guide for Youth with Special Needs and Their Families”. All of these sources provide a wealth of information on transition planning and much of this information is available on the internet. Reference to these other docu- ments is provided for you in Part 2 - the resource section of this guide.
While there is a lot of interesting information and ideas to follow in this guide, do not feel you need to read the document cover to cover in the first sitting. Read it a bit at a time, make notes and highlight activities that you can easily start with. Not all of the worksheets and suggestions for planning will work for everyone. You are encouraged to make use of the tools that make the most sense for you and your particular family circumstances.
Get a Quick Start! If you would like to get started right away before reading all of this document, turn to Section 7 “Now You are Ready to Start” . In that section you will find a summary of the information in Part 1 and some tips and tools to get you going.
“Connections” has been designed to fit into a binder so you can add and remove pages as you go. There is also a tab at the end of the guide labelled “Your Information”. Use this section to store in one place important information about your child and information on resources or services that you are interested in. Remove the worksheets and copy them or download fresh ones from the internet. As you go through the steps of transition planning, particularly the reviewing and updating of your plan, you will likely use and reuse some worksheets over and over. The types of activities involved in transition planning will likely be repeated many times over and could easily be continued well into adulthood as interests and preferences change.
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2. About Transition Planning
This section describes what transition planning is all about by talking about the following:
- Best practices – a discussion of things that makes transition
planning work well;
- Person-centred planning – an approach to including your
child in transition planning;
- Getting an early start – a discussion on the importance of
getting a handle on transition planning in the pre-teen years; and
- Managing the process – pointing out that much of the
responsibility for transition planning rests with parents.
Transitions are about change. The transition process is about looking ahead to the future and preparing for one of the most significant times in your child’s life – becoming an adult. For parents this may be a time of many emotions. As your child grows up, you may suddenly realize that they are becoming their own person with likes, dislikes, and their own view of the world.
Exploring new interests, getting to know the community, starting new programs, working with new service providers, establishing relationships with new caregivers, leaving familiar surroundings and friends and making new ones are some of the changes that lie ahead. Planning for these changes takes time and so an early start is important. Realistically, it will require a lot of preparation to develop a plan for the future that is positive and practical and that best reflects the preferences and interests of your child.
The time of transition planning is about building your child’s self-reliance skills. Your natural instinct is to protect your child and as a parent of a child with developmental disabilities that instinct is likely even stronger. However, it is important to not underestimate your child’s abilities. Find ways to set expectations for your child and provide them with lots of encouragement to do their best. Encourage them to expect the best from themselves. Throughout the planning exercise, it will be important to recognize opportunities to strengthen your child’s independence and their ability to begin advocating on their own behalf – a skill they will need as they become an adult.
Transition planning will mean making many decisions with your child about various aspects of their life. It is important for you to begin preparing for the time when your child is no longer in school everyday. You need to consider things like living arrangements, community programs, employment opportunities, further education opportunities, health care, recreation and social activities. The transition planning activities will help you look at each of the areas noted above to identify your child’s strengths and opportunities for growth, identify things they want to pursue and how they should go about pursuing them.
Not all of these changes need to happen at once. In fact, today many adolescents with or without developmental disabilities continue to live at home with their parents while attending post-secondary programs or after entering the workforce. However, the difference is that as a parent of a child with a development disability you may continue with many parental responsibilities that other parents pass on to their children as they reach adulthood.
Transition is about planning and preparing for the changes that adult life will bring and then having your child do the things that other young adults do. While some young adults with developmental disabilities may require supports and services from their community to do those things, adult life involves much more than receiving services. Becoming an adult is about participating in community life and being a citizen – a contributing member of society.
Tip # 1
More information on Best Practices is available in Part 2: Tools & Resources under Tool 1.
Best Practices in Transition Planning
Best practices can be defined as programs, initiatives or activities which are considered leading edge and can serve as exceptional models for others to follow. Research studies on best practices in transition planning typically identify a similar list of outcomes – person-centred or person-directed planning, including others in developing the plan, identifying a coordinator, and monitoring and updating the plan. Given their importance, many of these issues will also be discussed throughout the document.
In addition, some good examples of best practices research can be found in British Columbia at the Ministry of Children and Family Development, the Alberta Central Region Community Board, and the “Transitions from High School to Adult Life” project completed by the Saskatchewan Association for Community Living. In the United States, several good references are available through various states, including Washington, California, North Dakota and Michigan.
Tip #2
More information on resources in other jurisdictions is provided in Part 2: Tools & Resources under Transition Planning Resources, Transition Planning Guides and Other Transition Planning Resources.
Person-Centred Planning
Your child will be at the centre of developing their transition plan for their future. You and others close to your child need to find ways to have your child take a leadership role in planning and decision-making throughout the process to the extent that they are able. Involving your child in this way is called person-centred planning.
This approach to planning is about understanding your child, their gifts, their dreams, their interests and their preferences. It is about focusing on enabling qualities – the positives – to bring plans to action. Person-centred planning is based on the belief that each individual has strengths, has the ability to express preferences and make contributions and choices. Again, it is recognized that each child’s ability to contribute to the planning process will be different but every contribution in whatever form is important.
You may already be familiar with person-centred planning from other programs or activities as it is an approach that is not unique to transition planning. Using a person-centred planning approach to develop the transition plan is key to ensuring that your child will be the driving force throughout, with you, the parent, playing a significant role as well.
Much has been written about person-centred planning and there are many tools and exercises available to help those in your network better understand your child. Of particular interest are two such tools – MAPS (Making Action Plans) and PATH (Planning Alternative Tomorrows with Hope). MAPS is a planning process that takes a look at a person’s story – their history – to understand them and help them develop a plan to move in the direction of their dreams. PATH takes a point in the future and works back to the present, identifying the steps needed in between to make a dream a reality.
Tip #3
Further information about these tools is available at www.inclusion.com. They are also identified in Part 2: Tools & Resources under Transition Planning Resources, Person-Centred Planning Tools.
Much of the person-centred literature suggests that families should engage a facilitator to help through the planning process as is the case with the MAPS and PATH tools. The facilitator does not have to be a service professional but it is helpful if it is someone who has been trained in the use of person-centred planning tools. The Central Alberta Community Board has developed a set of person-centred planning tools so that families can engage in the planning activities and manage the process on their own. Many individuals, families, and service providers have been involved in conceptualizing, designing, piloting, and evaluating the person-centered planning process now being implemented in communities across the Central Alberta region. A person-centred planning tool and guidebook have been developed; a literature review and personal stories of success are also available for review. In Ontario, the Individualized Funding Coalition recently developed a person-directed planning guide, also available in a plain language version.
Tip #4
The Alberta documents can all be accessed at www.pdd.org/Central/resources/personcp.shtml and the Ontario document is available at www.individualizedfunding.ca. More information is available in Part 2: Tools & Resources under Transition Planning Resources, Person-Centred Planning Tools.
Involving your child from the beginning to create a plan that best reflects their interests and preferences is more likely to enhance the outcomes for your child and lead to the development and implementation of a more appropriate plan for the future. You should involve your child in ways that make the most sense based on their abilities and circumstances. Person-centred planning is a great way for your child to take ownership of their plan and to feel in control of their lives. It also provides them with an opportunity to begin advocating for themselves, an important skill in building self-reliance.
Get an Early Start
Planning for an event helps to identify the things that need to be done ahead of time, prepare for what is coming and think of alternative strategies if things do not go exactly as planned. Transition planning will help your child identify opportunities and experiences during their school years to help prepare them for life as an adult.
One of the most important aspects of transition planning is getting an early start. By the time your child reaches the age of nine you can begin with casual conversations about what they want to be when they grow up. Talking about the future with your child will help them become more comfortable with the whole notion of change. You will need to prepare your child well in advance to make sure they are ready to be involved and make decisions about the future. This is an important time for them and one they may not be ready to participate in at first. Planning allows both you and your child to prepare for the change ahead, to identify concerns and questions and become emotionally prepared for the move to adult life.
Through the education system, at age 14, your child will begin planning for the future through the development of an Individual Education Plan (IEP) and a Transition Plan. These plans will identify specific actions and activities that will help move your child closer to achieving their goals for the future. Further details about transition planning in the education system in Ontario are discussed in Section 4.
However, you don’t need to wait for the education system to get started. You can begin by keeping track of basic information about your child (reports, records, certificates of achievement etc.) and your family to share with various individuals as you go through the planning process. Having your child help you complete these transition planning documents that are found in Part 2 of this guide and discussed in Section 3 is a great way to introduce them to becoming involved in the planning process.
Manage the Process
Transition planning is a partnership involving you, your child, other family members, teachers, friends, community and adult service providers, employers and any other individuals with a vested interest in your child. As parents, your role will involve taking charge and effectively coordinating a set of activities to develop a transition plan that best reflects the interests and preferences of your child.
Transition planning is not an easy task and it is likely to be overwhelming at times. But you do not have to face it alone. Early on you will want to surround yourself with people who can help you. These people will become your network of support that know and have a vested interest in your child. Your network should be energizing and creative and will likely include other members of your family, friends, peers, teachers, and/or community support workers and even other parents of children with developmental disabilities. Find ways to give people in your network the opportunity to enjoy hospitality and to become familiar with one another. This will help build strong and effective relationships and help build commitment to your child. Many of the individuals in your network of support may become part of your transition planning team – individuals you select to help you put your plan together. While you are your child’s best advocate, there are many other people involved in your lives – both known to you and new to you – that can provide a wealth of information from an objective and fresh perspective. Section 3 provides more details on establishing this team.
You will encounter transition planning in the education system; it may also come up through your involvement in the service system; and you need to be thinking about transition planning activities at home as well. However, this planning process is not going to happen on its own and you cannot wait for someone else to start the ball rolling. It is going to take your hard work and effort to do this. You will need to coordinate your efforts across the community and education systems and build the most effective transition planning process for you and your child. The more prepared and knowledgeable you are, the more ready you will be to take charge and coordinate these efforts successfully.
3. THE STEPS IN TRANSITION PLANNING
This section suggests a series of steps to follow in getting the planning process started. The steps include the following:
- Step 1: Create a Vision and Build the Profile;
- Step 2: Build the Team;
- Step 3: Set Goals;
- Step 4: Action Plan; and
- Step 5: Updating the Plan.
A number of steps are outlined below to help you get started on your planning. The steps are sequentially numbered but since it is your plan, you can carry them out in any order that makes the most sense to you. For example, you may want to build your transition team first and then have the team help develop the profiles.
The worksheets identified in each of the following steps have been adapted (with permission) from materials developed in British Columbia by the Ministry of Children and Family Development “Your Future Now. A Transition Planning & Resource Guide for Youth with Special Needs and Their Families”. They are intended to guide you through the development of your transition plan. Use the worksheets, reuse them, modify them – they are meant to provide you with examples of the type of information that may be helpful to you as you identify your specific path to the future.
If you do not find these exercises suit your needs, there are other examples of transition planning guides identified in Part 2 under Transition Resources. Take a look at these other on-line guides and find one that is a good fit for you and your child. The important thing is that you do get started, and not necessarily which tool is used.
When beginning the worksheets, encourage your child to be involved in completing the exercises to the best of their ability. Support them and have them seek assistance from you, their friends or other family members. The more involved your child is the more likely the plan will reflect their interests and preferences. Having helped in making these decisions will give them a sense of accomplishment and confidence as they take a step towards a life of more independence as an adult.
Step 1: Create a Vision and Build the Profile
Building the profile is about gathering information on your child, your family and your family situation. You will need to share this information with the transition planning team since not everyone will be as familiar with your circumstances as you are. This will help the team in making the right decisions throughout the transition planning process.
The first exercise is about creating a vision for your child. This is an exercise that you may revisit several times as your child grows and their preferences and interests change as they experience new and different things.
Tip #5
Tool 5 in Part 2: Tools & Resources provides a set of vision developing questions that can be used at age nine and repeated as your child goes through the adolescent years.
’’ONE PARENT’S ADVICE… ON A VISION ‘‘ “Develop a vision for the future for your child. Make it your own vision and do not be limited by what others may say or what you think you may get. Draw support for your vision from every possible direction around you. Don’t be afraid to call upon others for help and input. Secure the support you need for an ordinary life for your child. And remember to get a network for yourself as a parent - this is a difficult journey.”
You should consider developing a vision as early as possible. This vision, when broken down into yearly goals, becomes very helpful in developing the transition plan. Establishing a vision is a great opportunity to set expectations for your child – realistic expectations based on their strengths, interests and preferences.
The vision exercise is meant to find out what your child is interested in, where their strengths and abilities lie and what they want to do in the future. This exercise should clearly outline what your child can do, what they are good at doing and what they like doing. Taking this approach can help make the experience more positive and will likely result in having your child perceived more positively as well.
‘‘ FROM A PARENT ’’ “When my daughter was a very young child we were focussed on her problems and looking for the right “fixes”. We tried to get her into a specialized school and she was not accepted. In retrospect, this was the best thing that ever happened since it started us down a path of inclusion.”
This early experience and others that followed really helped shape a change in this family’s philosophy. Instead of continuing to see problems and looking for fixes, they began to see gifts, what their daughter could bring to others and looked for ways to include her in all activities. This is not to say that your child’s challenges should be ignored – they should just not be the focus of the plan nor the basis of its development. Rather, they can be incorporated into expectations or identified as the needs to be supported throughout the transition period.
Tip #6
More information on MAPS and PATH can be accessed at www.inclusion.com The vision information can be accessed at www.pdd.org/docs/cent/PCP_811_Jan19.pdf. Further details on this and other tools available from the Central Alberta Community Board can be found in Part 2: Tools & Resources under Person-Centred Planning.
In establishing a vision for your child, there are other tools that can be helpful as well. Both the MAPS and PATH activities are useful to identify the unique preferences, experiences, skills and support needs of your child. The Central Alberta Community Board tools may also be helpful in identifying a vision and building a profile of your child. Next, you will develop your child’s profile which builds on the information identified in the vision. The list below identifies the type of information you should be gathering about your child as you develop their profile.
Gathering Information about Your Child
Identify people in your child’s life, such as family members, friends, cultural associations, school personnel, social workers, current service providers and community members.
- Discuss where your child spends his or her time.
- Identify things that others see as strengths that contribute to his
or her positive characteristics.
- Identify things that people see as areas where growth is needed.
- Discuss the kinds of choices your child makes.
- Identify preferences, including things that motivate your child
and create happiness, and non-preferences, including things that do not work for them, that create frustration and unhappiness.
- Discuss personal goals and dreams.
- Identify the most vital priorities to work on now (2-12 months)
and in the future (1-5 years).
- Discuss opportunities, including things or people that can help
your child achieve his or her personal goals and dreams.
- Discuss obstacles or barriers, including things or people that are
getting in the way of your child achieving his or her personal goals and dreams.
- Identify strategies to help your child overcome obstacles or
barriers and achieve personal goals and dreams.
Now, you will need to identify information about your family. This information should include services that you currently use, what you anticipate needing when your child reaches the end of school and the ways you can help your child reach their goals for the future. The following questions are things to consider in developing a family vision and completing a family profile
Family Profile
- What supports and services do you use now and will they
continue when your child reaches the age of 18 or 21?
- What additional or different supports and services do
you anticipate needing in the future?
- Will your child continue to live at home and for how
long? Will you require other living arrangements for your child?
- Do you have the means – financial and otherwise – to
support your child in adulthood?
- What financial planning do you need to consider?
These are things you will need to include in your transition plan and are as important as making arrangements for your child.
Tip #7
Your child, with appropriate assistance, can complete his or her profile by using the format provided in Tool 7 found in Part 2: Tools & Resources. You can complete your family profile by using use the format provided in Tool 8 in Part 2: Tools & Resources.
Step 2: Build the Team
While you will be expected to be very involved in the development of your child’s transition plan, you do not need to do it alone. Build a team for your transition plan by seeking the support of people who can help you to set your child’s goals for the future and then help in making those goals a reality. Choose from people who are part of your network of supports or circle of friends – people you are comfortable with. It is suggested that your team have at least two members and no more than eight – any more may be overwhelming.
Some individuals you may want to consider in addition to yourself and your child can include the following:
- Other family members;
- Parents who have recently gone through a transition plan
- Themselves;
- Teachers;
- Community workers;
- Friends;
- Peers;
- Employers; or
- Other members from the community.
Some members of the team may be involved with the planning process from the beginning. Others may be involved on a limited basis.
It may be helpful to ask yourself the following questions to identify the most appropriate members of your network or team:
- Who knows your child best?
- Who does your child trust and feel comfortable around?
- Who does your child look to for advice and support?
- Who would your child like to help him or her with their
transition from school to adulthood?
- How can these people best help?
It will be important for you to involve people that know your child well and that may also have a vested interest in your child. You will want to include people that have a positive outlook and can see the gifts and strengths your child has to offer. Think about including those that will network and advocate on your child’s behalf in much the same way as you will yourself. Remember, creativity is going to be a key to the success of your transition plan. The education system and the service system may not be able to support you in the way that you expect. So it is important to involve people on your team who can help develop innovative ways to support your child as they make their way to adulthood.
Once you have established your team, you will need to think about who could take on the role of coordinator. This person will be a key contact for the team throughout the process and will take the lead in organizing the activities of the team.
Tip #8
Tool 6 in Part 2: Tools & Resources section provides a template for keeping track of your team members contact information.
You will likely be responsible for most of the work involved in the planning process so surround yourself with the right people. Use your network of supports most effectively and gain from the experience of others. Seek out parents that have been through this process before and involve them in your planning efforts. Find a mentor for your child – a peer that has recently made the transition to adulthood who can support your child as they go through the steps in developing their plan.
Tip #9
Tool 2 in Part 2: Tools & Resources provides a suggested list of roles and responsibilities for members of the transition team.
Step 3: Set Goals
Once the profiles are completed for your child and your family, you will need to consider developing goals. Goals are an important step in the process since they will help identify the kinds of experiences your child should pursue through their high school years and the skills they will develop as a result.
There are a few things to consider in developing goals with your child. Write them down so you can tell if your child has achieved the goal(s). Goals should also be positive and possible. It may also be helpful to separate them into short-term and longer-term timeframes. Examples for each are identified below:
Short-term goal: Mary will find a volunteer position in the community by the end of April.
Long-term goal: Mary will have a part-time paying job by the end of next year.
Short-term goal: Adam will remain at Middletown Collegiate until age 21 to maximize learning of literacy, numeracy and life skills.
Long-term goal: Adam will continue to practise and maintain his literacy and numeracy skills after leaving school and to further develop life skills.
Establishing goals is a good way to address a fear your child may have about the future and it will give them a chance to talk about it. They can become more comfortable with something that they have concerns about through a number of small but progressive steps.
Following is a list of questions you can use to consider as part of the goal setting exercise.
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Goal Category
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Question
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| Health |
What will their health and medical needs be? How will they live a healthy lifestyle? |
| Housing/Living Arrangements |
Where will they be living? Will they be living at home, in a supported living arrangement, in a group home, or in their own apartment?
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| Finance/Money |
What about money? What will be their source of income? Will they require assistance with banking? If so, who will help? |
Friendship/ Social Life |
What will their social life look like? |
| Transportation |
What will their transportation needs look like? Do they need to use adapted transit? |
| Post-secondary |
Will they go on to further their education? |
| Education/Training |
Will they go to a university or college? Will they take a training course? |
| Employment |
What will they do after school is finished? Will they get a job? Will they go to a day program? |
| Recreation |
What will they do for recreation? Will they join a sports team? Will they take an art class? |
| Community Involvement |
What will they do during their spare time? Will they volunteer? What about spiritual and cultural activities? |
| Legal/Advocacy |
What will their legal needs be? Who will help them stand up for their rights? |
Tip #9
Tool 9 in Part 2: Tools & Resources may help you to identify your child’s goals for the future.
Step 4: Action Plan
Now that you have identified the pieces of the plan in the previous three steps, the action plan will help you pull it all together.
Tip #10
Tool 10 in Part 2: Tools & Resources provides a sample template that you may want to use in developing your transition plan. Other samples are available in the guides listed in the Part 2: Tools & Resources under Transition Planning Guides in Canada and United States.
First, your transition team will review the goals set in Step 3 and the potential supports and services identified to help in achieving these goals. In doing this, your team should consider the following questions:
- What are your child’s goals?
- What skills or behaviours does your child need to learn to
achieve these goals?
- What local programs, services and supports are available to
support your child’s goals?
- What responsibilities must you, the school, adult services,
cultural and community agencies, and your family assume in order for your child to reach his or her goals?
- What are the gaps or barriers within current programs and
services that must be addressed?
Then, the team is ready to identify the tasks that need to be completed to achieve the goals. Members of the team will also need to assume responsibility for these tasks to ensure that they are carried out. These
actions need to be fairly detailed so it is clear what needs to be done, by when and by whom.
The next step will involve reviewing the tasks identified to make sure that they are consistent with the vision developed for your child.
Tip # 12
Tool 11 in Part 2: Tools and Resources provides a chart to summarize the actions and assigned responsibilities. It can then be used to review your progress at the next transition planning meeting.
There are many activities that can be completed along the way, other than those specifically identified in the transition plan that can be used to help make progress towards your child’s goals. Many of these activities are ways to establish and reinforce self-reliance skills for your child. These activities will also be important to keep track of as you progress through the adolescent years.
Not every item will be relevant to every individual. Use the checklist as a guide to provide you with ideas and make adjustments to better fit your circumstances.
Tip #13
Tool 4 in Part 2: Tools & Resources provides a checklist of items ranging from birth through adolescence that can be helpful in moving your child towards his or her vision of the future.
Step 5: Updating the Plan
One of the most important steps is reviewing and updating your plan on a regular basis. One of the tasks of the transition coordinator is to schedule meetings to keep track of tasks that have been assigned and progress towards their completion. These meetings become an important opportunity to review the goals and ensure that they continue to be consistent with your child’s interests and preferences.
In reviewing the goals and the tasks assigned to each, it may be important to revise the goals and make them more specific as needed. As your child moves through their adolescence, their interests may become more defined and so too should their goals. An opportunity provided through a work experience program at school or a volunteer position in the community may help them to more clearly set the directions they want to take as an adult. Use these times of review to ensure the direction in the original transition plan is still consistent with your child’s current interests and preferences.
4. TRANSITION PLANNING AT SCHOOL
This section outlines the following information on transition planning in the education system:
- The school’s role – what you can expect from the education
system in planning for your child’s future;
- The value of work experience and co-operative education;
- Your role in the school transition plan – how you can utilize the
education system resources for your transition plan;
- Being an active participant – the importance of being involved
with your child in the education process; and
- Staying in touch – the importance of being aware of what is
happening with the education process and how you can influence the opportunities available to your child by being involved.
The Ontario Ministry of Education has developed a process to help students with the transition to work, further education and community living. An Individual Education Plan (IEP) must be completed for each student with special education needs that details the academic expectations for each year of school. Research indicates that having both the parents and child involved in the development of these plans can significantly improve the likelihood of a successful transition. The following information provides an overview of the process outlined by the Ministry of Education and the role you should take in making your way through the school transition process and integrating it with your own family transition plan.
The School’s Role
In Ontario, the Education Act, states that principals are responsible for ensuring that an IEP is developed for each student who has been identified as exceptional. If your child is 14 years of age or older, the IEP must also include a transition plan to appropriate postsecondary activities; for example, work, further education and/or community living.
The Principal will likely assign responsibility for coordinating the development, implementation and monitoring of your child’s IEP to one person – possibly the classroom teacher. The Ministry of Education recommends that a team approach should be used throughout the IEP process. In reviewing the following information you will see the similarities between the planning process in school and the personcentred transition planning process described earlier.
The following is a list of important information that will be included in your child’s IEP:
- their strengths and needs;
- relevant assessment data;
- medical/health information;
- your child’s current level of achievement in each program area;
- goals and specific expectations for the student;
- program modifications or the changes required to grade-level expectations in the Ontario curriculum;
- accommodations or supports and services that will help your child access the curriculum and demonstrate learning;
- special education services provided to your child;
- assessment strategies for reviewing your child’s achievements and progress;
- regular updates, showing dates, results and recommendations; and
- a transition plan (if your child is over the age of 14).
There are five phases to the IEP process which include the following:
1. gathering information; 2. setting the direction; 3. developing the plan; 4. carrying out the planned activities; and 5. reviewing and updating the IEP.
Most IEPs follow the timetable of a school year or semester. They are developed in early fall and cover the time up to the end of June or the end of a semester session. The IEP process involves ongoing review, evaluation and adjustment on a term-by-term basis. The IEP process is curriculum-oriented which means it should focus on how your child is expected to progress through the Ontario curriculum, with or without any modification of expectations.
The development of the transition plan through the education system should be consistent with the directions identified for your child in their IEP. The goals and action plan in the IEP should inform the development of the transition plan to ensure the actions in each are moving towards a common objective. You will need to ensure that both plans are consistent with your child’s interests and preferences.
Tip #14
The Ontario Ministry of Education and the School Boards in Central West Region have developed guides and templates for parents to assist with educational and transition planning. These can be accessed through website links which are identified in Part 2: Tools & Resources, Transition Planning Resources under Education Planning Documents. These websites also include information on Special Education Programs in Ontario and for each School Board.
The Value of Work Experience
As you participate in the development of the IEP, you will need to identify opportunities that will give your child a broad range of experiences to help explore their strengths, abilities and interests. Co-operative education and other forms of work experience programs available through the education system are an important part of developing a transition plan for your child. Co-operative (co-op) education, work experience, and school–work transition programs allow your child to experience a variety of opportunities and to learn more about themselves and the world of work.
Co-op education and work experience programs will require a written learning plan that covers their work placement goals and activities. To ensure the work experience is a meaningful one, the learning plan for the work experience program must be linked and consistent with the directions identified in the IEP – the student’s goals, strengths and needs. It will be important for you or your transition coordinator to be the link between your child’s teacher and the co-op education teacher to ensure you make the most of this opportunity.
Tip #15
Further information on the Co-operative Education and other forms of Experiential Learning Program can be accessed through the Ministry of Education website at: www.edu.gov.on.ca/eng/document/curricul/secondary/coop/cooped.pdf plan with the plan you are developing at home and make good use of the education system resources available to you.
Your Role in the School Transition Plan
As a parent, you have a significant role to play in the development of your child’s IEP and their transition plan. Being involved with your child means you have a better chance of developing a successful plan consistent with your child’s vision for the future.
While the school system has established requirements, standards and guidelines for developing the IEP and transition plan, the shape of the process will likely be different in each school. Regardless of the process, parents and students should be consulted and involved in the development of the IEP and transition plan. You should be prepared to be involved in the process to ensure you are receiving the supports most appropriate for you and your child.
Be prepared to ask lots of questions. Speak to the teacher, find out what the process will be, who will be leading the activities, who else will be involved, what will be developed and when. Make sure the teacher knows that you and your child want to be included in decision-making throughout the process. You will need to ensure that the IEP and transition planning processes are integrated and consistent with each other and moving in a direction consistent with your child’s preferences and interests.
If you have started your own transition planning activities at home, there should be an overlap with the information being developed through the education system, for example, identifying your child’s strengths, interests, dreams and areas to work on. Consider linking the education transition
Be an Active Participant
Help to establish the transition team by suggesting individuals you know will be creative and reflect a positive attitude throughout the planning process. Find out who will be involved from the school – both school personnel and those from the community. Do not hesitate to make suggestions as you see fit. Ask about including a parent from another family in the neighbourhood that has recently gone through transition planning. Find out if your child could be provided with a peer mentor, an older student about to leave the school system that has been through the process.
Be prepared to share lots of information about your child. Share any exercises you have already completed such as the vision setting activity. In addition to advocating for your child and presenting your views of them, it is also important to listen to what others have to say and value their input. They may bring a different but fresh perspective of your child that you may not see.
Be prepared to participate in meetings by bringing creative ideas and information to the table and encouraging the same of others. Help to establish realistic goals and expectations for your child. Then make sure activities are identified that help move towards achieving your child’s goals both at home and at school.
Identify and seek out opportunities and experiences for your child during their school years that will help them achieve their goals for the future, for example, co-op experience, work experiences, or volunteer opportunities. These activities provide them with much needed work experiences but are also great networking opportunities that will help your child become connected to the community outside of school.
Stay in Touch
The IEP and transition plan will require lots of monitoring and review on a regular basis. Find out how this will be done and how your child’s progress will be measured throughout the year. Make sure that reviews focus on ensuring the directions are still consistent with your child’s interests and strengths and that identified activities are being completed as previously assigned. Regular reviews are important to ensure that your plan is on track and still consistent with a direction that you and your child are comfortable with pursuing.
Keep the lines of communication open with your child’s teacher. Don’t feel you have to wait for the next meeting of the transition team to discuss your child’s progress. Recommend changes in goals, strategies and/or resources or support where you see a need.
This is your process. You will likely have to take an active role throughout your child’s school career to ensure the process is moving your child towards the achievement of their goals. Making good use of the resources that are available through the school system will help to create a plan that will provide your child with many positive experiences to assist them make the transition to adult life.
5. TRANSITION PLANNING IN THE COMMUNITY
This section outlines transition planning in the community system through a Discussion of the following:
- Adult system reality – this is not an entitlement system and you need to
be prepared;
- A description of accessing adult Services in Dufferin and Wellington Counties
and the Regions of Halton, Peel and Waterloo.
the service system is complex, there are many people accessing the services available and many waiting for supports. The transition to ad ult life may be a confusing time. Your child will likely h ave to leave behind some of the supports, if not all, they have become familiar with as an adolescent. You may need to develop a whole new set of activities, supports and services that are consistent with your child’s preferences and interests as they begin their life as an adult. Th ere may b e some services that will continue to the age of 18 and even beyond (e.g. Special Services at Home) and some that will not continue (i.e. Assistance for Children with Severe Disabilities). There are different supports and services available to a person over the age of 18 - such as the Ontario Disability Support Program (ODSP).
You need to become knowledgeable about services for adults and how your child will fit into the system. This is a time for asking questions. B e sure yo u know what is going to happen to services and supports your family is currently receiving and what new services you may be eligible for as your child becomes an adult. Use this information as you begin your transition planning process.
As you make your plans for the future it is important to remember your child is entitled to service through the publicly funded education system. Ad ult services are not based on a system of entitlement. Both the increased demand for service and government policies have required agencies to look at serving those persons in their community who are “most in need”. Practically this means that while your son or daughter might be eligible for service in the adult system, they may be on a waiting list for some time. Being prepared is key to a successful transition, but it is not a guarantee of receiving the supports and services that you might expect from the system.
the following information explains the access process for each of the communities in Central West Region.
Access in Dufferin County Th ere are currently three access agencies in Dufferin County serving people with a developmental disability: Community Living Dufferin, Dufferin Child and Family Services and Kerry’s Place Autism Services.
Each of these three agencies will help persons with a developmental disability and their family in the following way:
- provide comprehensive information about services and the system;
- determine eligibility for service;
- document the initial referral information including the types of service
- and supports that are being requested; and
- provide support to the individual and/or family.
Each agency has their own range of services and supports. Dufferin Child and Family Services provides a variety of services and supports to infants, children and adults. Their services specifically for people with a developmental disability include the Infant and Child Development Program, the Service Coordination Program(s) for children and adults of all ages, respite services, the Complex Special Needs Support program for under18 years of age, the Medically Fragile Technologically Dependent Day Respite Program, and the Special Services at Home Program. In addition each of these services offer a wide variety of outreach, social, group work and educational forums. Community Living Dufferin provides a Community Outreach and After School Activity Program, Employment Programs, a Learning & Leisure Program and a Behaviour Therapy Program. It also provides and supports community living arrangements and housing for adults who have a develop mental disability. Kerry’s Place Autism Services provides resource information for parents, respite, residential and day program supports as well as leisure and recreational activities.
If you know the agency and service you want then contact them directly. If you are unsure about what services and supports you want then you can call any of these three agencies and they will take your information and make the link to the appropriate lead agency.
Again, the following agencies participate in this access process: Dufferin Community Living Kerry’s Place Autism Services Dufferin Child and Family Services Access in Halton Region Halton Coordinated Services In take was developed to provide an intake mechanism for families and/or individuals who are seeking services in the developmental Services sector in Halton. One call to Halton Support Services provides you with an entry point to any of the participating developmental services agencies with in Halton . However this does not mean that services will necessarily be available to meet the needs of families and/or individuals.
Once a call has been made to Halton Support Services (call HSS at 905-849 - 8000 or 1-800-6 00-2013) the family, individual or caregiver will be connected with the Coordinated Intake Worker who will: take the initial referral information including the types of service(s) that are being requested ; • begin to make an initial determination of the urgency of needs and preferences; and • help the family, individual or caregiver in understanding and matching them with services which might best meet the individual’s or family’s needs.
After this call the family/individual will be sent an Application Information Form to complete along with a request for medical documentation regarding the individual’s disability. When HSS receives this information eligibility for service will be determined and an Intake Worker will arrange for an in formation session for the individual and family. This session will provide in formation on the developmental services sector and other supports in Halton and help the family/individual Identify their needs.
If the request for support involves residential, day program or passages services, the completed application information forms will be reviewed by the Halton Coordinated Services In take Committee (HCSIC ) which is responsible for the residential selection process in Halton and for managing the list of individuals waiting for service. Yo u need to keep in touch with Halton Support Services if there are any changes in your circumstances that may have an impact on the referral for service.
the service providers participating in this access process are:
- Community Living Burlington Community Living Oakville
- Christian Horizons
- Developmental Foster Care Service
- Community Living North Halton Halton Support Services
- Access in Peel Region
Within the Region of Peel there are a number of agencies which can assist individuals in their transition to adult services. Each agency h as its own intake process so you will need to directly contact the agency you are interested in . If you are unsure which agency would best suit the needs of your family member, any one of the services can direct you to the most appropriate agency with in the Peel Region .
Brampton Caledon Community Living and Community Living Mississauga provide the following Services:
- Service Coordination
- Day Supports/Programs and Planning
- Future Planning
- Supported independent and group living
- Access to Regional support mechanisms
Kerry’s Place Autism Services and Christian Horizons each provide similar services as listed above. Kerry’s Place Autism Services focuses on the unique needs of individuals with a diagnosis of autism and offers parent support groups, skill building groups and consultation regarding behaviour needs. Christian Horizons operates a variety of supported independent and group living arrangements in Peel Region.
Family Services of Peel offers counselling services. The Adult Protective Service Worker assists adults 1 8 years and older who have a developmental disability, and who are living on their own in the community. The worker will assist the individual to identify their strengths and needs, and will provide support, problem-solving, and life skills support
Peel Case Management provides services to children and youth up to the age of 18 . This agency assists families to link with other services in the community which can then assist the family with transition planning.
Residential supports in Peel Region are managed by an inter-agency Committee of service providers and Ministry representation. This committee is responsible for maintaining a regional list of those individuals who are interested and need supported living. In addition, any vacancy that becomes available in Peel Region is handled by this Committee. Access to this service is provided through the agencies listed below.
the following agencies in Peel Region can assist with the transition to adult services:
- Brampton Caledon Community Living
- Community Living Mississauga
- Christian Horizons
- Family Services of Peel
- Kerry’s Place Autism Services
Access in Waterloo Region the Developmental Services Access Centre (DSAC) – Water loo Region serves as the single point of access for adult developmental services in Waterloo Region. It offers a range of professional and support services, and can assist individuals and families in connecting with residential, community participation /Passport supports, and respite Services. Individuals mu st have a developmental disability (an intellectual disability and /or an autism spectrum disorder) in order to be eligible for developmental services.
To make a referral to DSAC, please call 519-74 1-1121 . When you call, some basic information will be collected about your needs, and then you will b e connected with an intake worker. this per son will confirm your eligibility for services and obtain information that will help to get you some initial service. You will then be connected with the community services and programs that can support your goals. After you are in the system, you will receive regular mailings and updates about new events and programs that may be of in ter est to you. This will include workshops and programs targeted for people making the transition from school to adult life.
Access in Wellington County Access Information and Referral (AIR) is the centralized intake and referr al point for Developmental Services in Wellington. AIR, in conjunction with its service partners, provides access to support for infants, children and adults with developmental concerns in Wellington County (including access to Passport). AIR will help answer your questions and make any referrals you want to the services and supports within the Developmental Services system. You can contact AIR at 519-8 24-4015 or toll free at 1-8 77-216-1116.
the following agencies participate in this access process: Christian Horizons Hopewell Homes Community Living Guelph Wellington Kerry’s Place Autism Services Trellis Mental Health & Developmental Services KidsAbility Family Counselling and Support Services Torchlight Services
Tip #16 Contact information for each of these agencies mentioned in the access descriptions is provided in Part 2: Tools & Resources under Resources for Families.
6. TRANSITION PLANNING AT HOME
This section outlines things that you can do at home to help move the transition planning process along such as:
- Focus on the positive – an approach to presenting your child
throughout the process that helps create a supportive and creative environment;
- Building self-reliance – the importance of fostering independence
for your child and examples of how to do this;
- Get connected – the importance of finding people to support you
and help you through the process; and
- Consider all options – the importance of being creative and
trying new things.
There are many things that you can do at home to support the transition planning process without waiting for your child’s teacher or someone in the community service system to start the process.
Focus on the Positive
Keeping a positive attitude and setting expectations are very important factors in developing your transition plan. High expectations do not provide any guarantee of success, but setting expectations will help your child reach their potential. Always remember the way you view your child will have a direct impact on how they are viewed by others.
Everyone has strengths, gifts and abilities. Speak of your child’s enabling qualities rather than the barriers that limit them. Too often, children with developmental disabilities have come to be described by their disabilities, which can be limiting in determining an appropriate action plan. When focussing on their abilities, strengths and interests, it is much easier to develop a positive and more creative plan.
Build Self-Reliance
Building self-reliance is a key activity in developing a successful transition plan and in helping your child become a more independent adult. There are lots of ways you can begin developing your child’s self-reliance skills at home from an early age simply through daily living activities. Use these opportunities to encourage your child to recognize and develop their abilities.
Building self-reliance is also about allowing your child to make decisions. Start early. Help your child become comfortable with the notion of making their own decisions. This will help them accept their role as decision-maker during transition planning activities.
Remember, making decisions will involve risks which subsequently have consequences. There may be a few hard lessons learned along the way but it is all part of growing-up and taking responsibility for actions as an adult. Continue to encourage your child and be sure to let them know that it is okay to make mistakes – everyone learns from their mistakes. Your child will come to recognize that they are capable of making decisions for themselves, which will help them as they move to life as an adult. Start small. Help your child to decide on things with low risk, such as what to wear, what to have for lunch, etc. Teach your child that they can ask for advice in making decisions – it is not something they need to do alone.
Below are examples of ways to encourage self-reliance. They progress from activities to do at an early age right through to the high school years. Recognize that not all activities listed may be appropriate for your child. Identify those that are consistent with your child’s abilities and adapt suggestions where necessary. You may be surprised by what your child can accomplish if given the chance and lots of encouragement.
Examples of Ways to Encourage Self-Reliance
- Teach your child everyday skills like brushing their teeth.
- Give your child household chores that match their abilities.
- Provide them with an allowance.
- Allow your child to choose how to spend some or all of their
allowance.
- Teach your child their personal information such as address, phone
number.
- Begin giving your child choices so they can learn to make
decisions, like choosing which clothes to wear.
- Teach your child the consequences of their behaviours and their
choices.
- Begin asking your child what they want to be when they grow up.
- Have your child help in making simple meals for the family and
progress to having them make meals on their own.
- Involve your child in neighborhood and community activities,
such as Scouts, swimming lessons, story hour at the library etc.
- Wherever possible and at an appropriate time, allow them to
participate without you.
- Encourage hobbies based on your child’s interests and strengths.
- Teach your child to speak up for themselves.
- Allow your child to complete homework assignments as
independently as possible. Let them tell you when they need your assistance.
- Teach your child life skills, such as money management,
shopping skills.
- Introduce your child to the public transit system.
- Encourage your child to get to places in the community on
his/her own by using the public transit system, walking, making arrangements with friends.
- As part of the high school experience, consider community based
job training (co-op programs) and life skills if these are appropriate activities for your child. Involve your child in all decision-making.
- Include your child in meetings about their education through
the IEP process and transition planning.
- Continue to talk about career interests that are consistent with
your child’s interests and strengths.
- Help your child talk directly with doctors and other service
providers.
- As appropriate, encourage gradual moves toward greater personal
independence and self-care.
- Have your child do volunteer or paid work in the home,
neighbourhood or community. Assist your child in developing good work habits.
- Have your child become a mentor for younger children just
entering high school.
Tip #17
Tool 4 in Part 2: Tools & Resources highlights a complete checklist of transition activities that includes many self-reliance building activities that you can start from a very early age.
When thinking about self-reliance beyond the school years look at the Ontario Skills Passport (OSP), a resource that provides clear descriptions of the skills used in virtually all occupations, as well as important work habits. The OSP was developed by the Ontario Ministry of Education and the Ministry of Training, Colleges and Universities. The purpose of the OSP is to document an individual’s demonstration of skills and work habits that are considered to be of great importance in the workplace.
Students and job seekers can use the OSP to identify the skills they already have and to plan further skill development so that they can more easily make the transition to the workplace and/or to post-secondary education. The skills listed in the OSP are transferable skills that a student, job seeker and worker can take from job-to-job, sector-to-sector and school to work.
There are two components of the OSP that may be of interest in you and your child:
- the OSP database which lists skills and related tasks by occupation;
and
- the OSP portfolio to keep work plans and other skill-related
documents, such as a résumé and an OSP skills summary chart.
Tip #18
You can access the Ontario Skills Passport website at: www.skills.edu.gov.on.ca/OSPWeb/jsp/en/login.jsp
As you get into the activities for identifying what your child wants to do beyond school, this is a good resource to identify the skills your child may need in considering a potential occupation or post-secondary opportunity to pursue.
Get Connected
This is the time to make sure you are informed about what is going on at the school and in the service system. Speak to your child’s teacher. Make sure you understand the IEP and transition process as it is established in your child’s school. Speak to your service providers. Understand what is going to happen to the services you are receiving now when they reach the age of 18 or 21. Find out about your community. Ask to be added to mailing lists of organizations you are interested in, sign up for newsletters, and read the community newspaper. It will be important for you to understand your community as you help your child make a connection to their community.
Transition planning is about being organized and prepared. If you haven’t already started, it will be helpful to keep various records for your child together; for example, report cards, assessments, certificates of involvement in community programs etc. Put this guide into a binder and use it for keeping your transition planning resources and other important information in one place. You will likely need to refer to these documents as you discuss your plans for the future with various individuals. Keep track of who you talk to, times and dates of conversations, what was discussed, referrals to other individuals or organizations, and identify if a follow-up conversation is required.
Tip #19
Tool 3a in Part 2: Tools & Resources provides a template for keeping track of contact information as you begin talking with individuals and organizations.
Don’t think you need to try to do this all on your own. Ask other people to get involved to help you and your child throughout this process. Start early and establish strong support networks – family, friends, parents, professionals, employers, trainers, community groups who can help build a connection to your community. Access agencies can provide you with information on parent groups in your community or ask at your child’s school. If you find there are no parent groups in your area, consider starting one of your own.
Networking will be a key activity for you as you go through the transition process. This may involve making calls to people you have never spoken with before.
Tip #20
To make this a little less intimidating, use some of the tips in Tools 3b, c and d in Part 2: Tools & Resources to help you in your discussions with agencies, community organizations and professionals.
When talking with an access agency, there are many things they may be able to help you sort out but you need to ask. There may be a transition group already established in your area that you could be part of. The agency may be able to connect you to a parent’s group or simply another parent that has already gone through this process – a mentor. Ask if there is a newsletter to parents that you could subscribe to. Find out if there is a coordinator available to help you navigate your way through the transition process. Be prepared to ask many of these questions for yourself and do not rely on the service system to provide this information to you.
Consider all Options
There are different options to consider in seeking out supports for your child that are found in the mainstream system available to others in the community. While your child is in the education system, take a look at the programs available to the general public through the Board of Education. While most courses are for adults there may be some programs that are available for younger people. Having your child participate in these programs can help to build their self-reliance skills and further develop their interests.
Get out in your community with your child and find a connection. From early on, participate with your child in recreation and leisure programs. Sign up for swimming lessons, craft programs, library groups. Seek out appropriate faith groups to participate in. These activities will provide you with a strong connection to the community and a good network of connections when you are looking for experiences for your child as an adolescent.
Find other parents and see what things they have done. Use their experience and knowledge of the system to help you make your way through. They will have a wealth of information that you can use to help determine your activities for your child. Ask your child’s teacher what other parents have done for their children. They will likely have some good ideas based on what has worked for other parents in a similar situation.
Don’t be afraid to try something new. During this time in your child’s life, you need to give them many experiences to find out what they like and what they don’t like. They need to find out what works for them. Trying new things will help them experience the world, will help them become familiar with their community and help them to be a part of it as they make the transition to adult life.
The creativity of parents… One strategy is connecting to other parents who are seeking the same opportunities for their sons and daughters. Parents could consider pooling their resources and working together to develop a daytime schedule based on the unique needs and goals of their children. By doing this, parents are able to choose the hours that are best suited to their routine and select their own support staff.
Look in your community for an easy-to-access location such as a library or community centre for a meeting place. From there you can access a broad range of activities such as volunteer placements, fitness activities, literacy programs, and life skills.
7. NOW YOU ARE READY TO START
This section provides you with some practical tips on getting started now. Some of the suggestions include:
- Create your family vision – turn to Table 8 in the Tools & Resources
section for further information;
- Create your vision for your child – a completed sample vision is
highlighted in this section. You can also turn to Table 5 and Table 7a and 7b;
- Develop your plan – turn to Table 12; and
- Timeline of important activities – a list of suggested activities is
outlined for you as your child progresses to adult life.
There is a lot of information in this guide. This section provides you with a short summary of the activities to consider now that you are ready to get started with your planning.
Create Your Family Vision
Knowing where you and other members of your family want to be in the next five years or ten years is an important part of developing a vision and plan for your child. For most parents, the responsibilities of raising a child are close to being complete once their child reaches adulthood. Children take on more and more responsibilities for themselves. When raising a child with a developmental disability, parental responsibilities often continue on much longer, if not for life. You will need to consider how to manage these responsibilities within the context of how you see your life changing as you enter your retirement years. For example, do you see your child continuing to live at home and for how long? At some point you will likely need to consider alternate living arrangements. It may not be right away but it is something that you need to consider as part of your plan.
Tip #21
Tool 8 in Part 2: Tools and Resources sets out a family profile that can be useful in creating your family vision.
You will need to ensure that your financial situation can manage the demands of supporting yourselves in retirement as well as any additional demands needed to support your child in the future. You may want to consider contacting a financial adviser to determine if you are receiving all the tax benefits you are entitled to as a parent of a child with a developmental disability and to ensure you are taking advantage of the appropriate investment tools that can help you meet your financial goals (e.g. Registered Education Savings Plans, Registered Retirement Savings Plans etc.)
Tip #22
In Part 2: Tools & Resources under Financial Resources there is a list of tax benefits, credits and rebates as well as investment vehicles that may help you in making some financial decisions about the future.
Create Your Vision for Your Child
As discussed in an earlier section, the vision for your child is an opportunity to highlight all of the gifts, strengths and abilities they have to offer. Being positive in establishing a vision can make a difference in how the planning for your child is approached and the way in which your child is perceived by others – define them by their abilities not their limitations.
Tip #23
Below is a brief version of the tool you will find in Tool 5 in Part 2: Tools & Resources which will help develop your child’s vision. Use this along with Tool 7 to help complete your child’s profile.
| My name is: |
My age is: |
| What I like to do and what I can do… |
| At home: |
| At school: |
| At work (if working): |
| In the community (outside of home, work or school) |
| For fun (hobbies and interests): |
| What I would like to do or learn to do… |
| At home: |
| At school: |
| At work (if working): |
| In the community (outside of home, work or school) |
| For fun (hobbies and interests): |
| When I grow up: |
| Summary… |
| My strengths/gifts are… |
| My interests are… |
| Some limitations that I need to talk about are… |
| In my vision for the future, I would like to… |
It is important to remember that all individuals have unique abilities that make them the person they are. Keep these in mind as you go through the steps of transition planning. The following example shows how you can create a vision for your child based on the positive attributes and unique abilities your child has to offer.
ONE PERSON’S VISION…
The following is an excerpt from one parent’s description of their daughter’s adult life reflecting the vision of inclusion they held for their daughter. “She has an extremely vigorous calendar of commitments. On Mondays she listens to Grade 1 students read at her old elementary school. This exercise helps the little ones gain confidence in their reading ability. Sue cannot speak and for the children this means they are able to read freely with no expectation of criticism, simply the reassurance of a smiling face. Sue is also a facilitator at the Royal Ontario Museum in the Bio-Diversity Hands-On exhibit, helping people discover things that they might otherwise not notice. My daughter also brings hope and inspires the vulnerable and dispossessed through her own vulnerability, when she volunteers at the Mustard Seed drop-in center with its community kitchen, library, sewing room, etc. Salt and Light TV is another place that Sue contributes her gifts. As well as helping with editing, her presence reminds this Catholic community who can sometimes get wrapped up in the hustle and bustle of film making, of the values that form the foundation of their faith. Most inspiring to many, is the fact that Sue is a dancer. She dances with the Spirit Movers liturgical dance group and testifies to her strong faith using this medium. How does a person who is non-verbal and wheelchair bound living within the constraints of others ideas and expectations of people with disabilities do all these things? Her success in overcoming obstacles is mainly due to the deep and committed relationships she has developed with family, friends, her support circle as well as collaboration with community groups that she comes in contact with regularly such as church, schools and other venues. Her support circle, who have been meeting regularly for the past 13 years, help interpret her goals and dreams. Sue does not speak, so those around her ensure that she has many other ways to express her feelings and desires. It is imperative that she have long-term relationships both paid and unpaid who can help build the capacity of the community to welcome her gifts. In return, Sue helps them create a better world for all. This is citizenship, and Sue is an esteemed educator in this regard.”
Get Your Plan Going
These next steps in the process will involve a lot of work on your part. Identify your transition team and select someone to be the coordinator. This is likely going to be an unpaid position, so if no one will take on this responsibility, it will be up to you to take it on yourself. Hold meetings, network, fill in the worksheets, network, update and monitor progress and network some more. The more connected and supported by creative people you are the better. Keep track of everyone you come in contact with over the years – networking is very important to developing your plan for the future.
Tip #24
Tool 12 in Part 2: Tools & Resources provides sample transition plans for you to review as you develop your own. One shows an example of a plan for a youth with high needs and the other is for a youth with moderate needs.
Timeline of Important Activities
As you make your way through the transition planning process, there are many things to remember and some important timelines to keep in mind. As your child moves through their teenage years, you will need to clearly understand which services will change and which will remain the same and at what age these changes will take effect. You will also need to understand what you need to apply for and what is required for each application. For example, you will need to obtain a diagnosis of your child’s disability for the Ontario Disability Support Program. You should apply for this benefit prior to your child’s 18th birthday (at least six months prior) which means the formal diagnosis documentation is needed by the time they are 17.
The following is a list of activities and events that you should take note of as your child progresses towards adulthood. Again, activities should be undertaken that are consistent with your child’s abilities and where such activities make sense for you as a family.
ACTIVITIES FOR PARENTS TO CONSIDER TO PLAN FOR TRANSITION
Age 0-2
- Obtain a birth certificate and/or proof of citizenship.
- Begin financial planning. Set aside money to assist your child in
the future.
- Apply for the Canada Child Tax Benefit and the Universal Child
Care Benefit.
- Apply for other federal benefits for children with disabilities, as
appropriate based on eligibility requirements.
- Start a file for records like medical records, assessments, report cards,
community certificates, records of completion.
Age 3-6
- Talk with parents of children with and without disabilities. Begin
developing a network of friends and supports early.
- Apply for Special Services at Home through the Ministry of
Community and Social Services.
Age 7-11
- Begin asking your child what they want to be when they grow up.
- Begin developing a vision for your child for life after high school.
- Begin developing a vision for your family for the future.
- Network with others who have recently experienced transition planning.
Age 12-16
- Open a bank account for your child, if you haven’t already done so.
- Include your child in meetings about their education through the
IEP process and transition planning.
- Find a parent’s group or transition planning group to join. If none
are available, consider starting one.
- Consider carefully your child’s options for high school education.
Encourage community-based job training (co-op programs) and life skills if these are appropriate activities for your child. Involve your child in all decision-making.
- Continue to talk about career interests that are consistent with
your child’s interests and strengths.
- Look at the Ontario Skills Passport website for helpful information
on developing employment skills at: http://skills.edu.gov.on.ca/OSPWeb/jsp/en/login.jsp
- Have your child do volunteer or paid work in the home, neighbourhood
or community. Assist your child in developing good work habits.
Age 17-21
- By age 17, obtain a diagnosis of disability in preparing for the Ontario
Disability Support Program (ODSP) application. Your child’s pediatrician can be helpful.
- Begin thinking about health care services that need to change as your
child reaches adulthood, i.e., changing from pediatrician to family doctor.
- Contact the Office for Students with Disabilities on campus of a
college or university your child is interested in attending.
- Contact ODSP for Income Support before age 18 (six months before
turning 18).
- Contact ODSP Employment Supports for help with job search and
training in their last term of school.
- Contact your local developmental services agency or Community
Living Association for resources and training opportunities.
- Take on the role of coach on the sidelines and let your child
become the decision maker
- Apply for the Passport Initiative
8. SOME FINAL THOUGHTS
This section will leave you with the key messages communicated throughout the Guide in each of the previous sections.
You are going to have to work hard to help your child prepare for adult life. The system is not going to do this for you. The best transition plan is not going to guarantee that the supports and services you would like for your child will be available at the conclusion of your transition process. You will need to be creative and consider ways to support your child beyond the traditional service system.
These are some of the key messages that this guide will leave you with as you begin the transition planning process with your child.
- It is never too early to start planning - start thinking about your plan
before your child is in high school. There are many things you can do from an early age to prepare for the changes ahead.
- From a very young age, you can begin building self-reliance skills to
encourage a move to a more independent life as an adult.
- Your vision should be a long-term objective – one that is achieved in
incremental steps by identifying activities to complete on a year-by-year basis. Most importantly, this vision should be done with the active involvement of your child.
- Establish a vision for your family. Your plans for the future need to be
considered and factored into the development of the plan for your child.
- Be prepared to have to initiate things for yourself. Do not wait for the
education system to create a plan for you. Do not wait for your service providers to create a plan for you. Do not assume that the service system will provide support when your child turns 21. It will be up to you to create your child’s future.
- Calls to agencies and professionals that you may not have spoken to
before could be intimidating at first but being organized and prepared before you call will make the task seem less daunting. Use the tools and the resources provided in this document to help you get started.
- Find creative people, energetic people, positive people that will surround
you with the type of support you need as you enter this major time in your child’s life. Speak to your child’s teacher to find a parent in your area or speak to an access agency. They will connect you to other parents or parent groups. If you do not find an appropriate group, then consider starting your own.
SOME FINAL THOUGHTS FROM EXPERIENCED PARENTS…
“Do your research and know what you are asking for.”
“You can’t rely on the system - government funding isn’t secure and it won’t ever replace the importance of valued relationships.”
“You have got to start to think differently and figure out something for the future or you and your son or daughter are going to be sitting at home together all day watching TV.”
“Get yourself connected to some parent groups through an agency – stay involved – in whatever way you can including volunteering your time – it’s a great way to get connected with others. Get newsletters – it’s a way of getting information.”
“Everyone has the capacity to dream and to see their child as a person with gifts - you have to find the way to change your view"
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